Saying Goodbye

September 26th, 2011 by Kristin Kopp

Image by Brian Finifter via Flickr

I learned the proper way to say goodbye to loved ones while attending the University many years ago. No matter how irritating the visit, I recognized that when I left I wanted a clean slate where love was the only thing that could be felt.

Many of us have learned this lesson and it deserves repeating. We may find our loved ones irritating, but they are who we’ve got. We want to remember the good and have them feel the warm embrace of our love in our absence.

There are other familiar ones who we embrace because they are what we have got… irritating and as unlovable as they may seem. Our feelings, attitudes and beliefs are what we have got. We hold on to them like they are family.

We hold on to anger, resentment, fear, feelings of unworthiness and suspicions that we are being used.

It’s time to say goodbye. These feelings, ideas and attitudes are where we give away our power. They are what make us feel drained, kicked down and vulnerable.

Our mindset creates our experience. If we want to be treated with esteem, we must value ourselves. If we want to be utilized instead of used, we must drop our idea of being a victim.

It’s time to say goodbye to these beliefs that make us feel small. They no longer serve us. We can choose new feelings, attitudes and behaviors that will get create new experiences that bring more value to us and to those around us.

Positive thinking, affirmations and acting “as if” will only get you so far. When stress hits hard the old way of being will pop back without any discussion with you. There are simple ways to eliminate the energetic patterns so that you get to choose, decide and live the life you prefer.

Coaching, tools and support are availble.

Say goodbye to what has been harassing you. You deserve to live your life in freedom.

Waiting is just an excuse that covers up the power you have given to your unhappiness.

The time is now. Call or write, right now.

414-839-3711 and kristin@kristinkopp.com

I’m looking forward to helping you get your power and freedom back.

Love,

Kristin